Feeling a bit of overwhelm and anxiety these last couple of weeks?
Unfortunately, getting stressed is one of the worst things we can do as the chemistry of stress decreases our immunity. And we all need to be as healthy as possible right now. We have to make sure we’re resilient and taking care of our mental and physical well-being.
Stress releases the hormone cortisol which weakens our long-term immunity, decreases lymphocytes (white blood cells that fight off infection) and increases inflammation.
In my work I help people understand that stress is not something that only happens in our heads: it’s a chemical, biological event that radically changes our chemistry and physiology. It’s important to optimize the chemistry of our bodies and brains during and after stress…and that it’s really easy.
Here are 3 things you can do to get rid of cortisol, boost your immunity and feel less stressed.
1. WORK IT OUT. Exercise is one of the best known ways to decrease cortisol AND it improves immune response. Exercise also increases circulation, which improves the ability of your cells, nutrients and illness-fighting substances to move through your body and do their jobs.
And don’t stress about fitting in exercise. Do some interval training! It’s efficient, effective and can be done in very little time. Any activity can be made interval training: just increase the intensity for 30 seconds to 5 minutes, decrease the intensity for the same or half the amount of time, and repeat these intervals for as much time as you have.
Need a no-brainer way to get this done and avoid all the germs at the gym? Here’s a tool I created to take all the stress out of it – and you can do it at home!
2. GET QUALITY SLEEP. Lack of sleep increases your cortisol levels, which decreases your immunity. Studies have shown that people who don’t get quality sleep or enough sleep are more likely to get sick after being exposed to a virus. And lack of sleep can affect how fast you recover if you do get sick. Cortisol also makes it harder to get good sleep – the more cortisol you have in your system, the more difficult it is to get quality sleep.
- Remember that exercise helps to get rid of cortisol. Exercise also increases the quality of your sleep. Research has shown that people who exercise fall asleep faster and sleep more soundly.
- Be diligent about getting to sleep and waking up at the same time.
- Aim for 7-9 hours.
3. SIMPLE NUTRITION STRATEGIES. What, when and how you eat can produce cortisol, decrease your immunity and increase your stress. And stress produces cortisol, which in turn, affects what, when and how you eat.
- Going too long without eating triggers the release of cortisol. Eating approximately every 3-4 hours by alternating moderately-sized meals and snacks of 100-150 calories not only reduces the release of cortisol, it keeps your cells fueled for optimum function.
- Turning to stress outlets like alcohol, nicotine, and caffeine may feel good in the moment, but they increase your biological and chemical stress and can reduce your immunity. Keep them to a minimum.
- Cut back on sugar. Increased sugar intake inhibits your immune system cells that attack bacteria.
- Eat more vitamin and antioxidant-rich fruits and vegetables. The more brightly colored and varied the better.
If you’re looking for more ways to optimize your chemistry, decrease your stress, improve your resiliency and your health, you can find more resources in my book The Resiliency rEvolution: Your Stress Solution for Life, 60-Seconds at a Time.
5 WAYS TO DECREASE YOUR FINANCIAL STRESS, CREATE A GREATER SENSE OF CONTROL AND OPEN YOUR WORLD OF FINANCIAL POSSIBILITY
Well…..he might be.
If you’ve been in my audience or read my book, you’re familiar with Sneaky Pete. If you haven’t or you’re not, Sneaky Pete represents the primitive part of our brain that:
- is all about living in the present moment
- is focused on our immediate comfort
- only cares about what feels good
- is highly reactive and emotional
- has no capacity for rational thought
- couldn’t give a rip about future consequences of today’s actions
Sneaky Pete is the default setting for our brains because he takes the least amount of energy to use. The more advanced, rational part of our brains that makes good decisions – like when it comes to managing our finances and planning for the future – takes A LOT of energy to use and is easily exhausted. To make things worse, whenever we’re stressed, Sneaky Pete automatically assumes control.
So what does he have to do with your money?
Just about everything.
Sneaky Pete is the voice in your head telling you YOU REALLY NEED the latest piece of technology or a bigger and better TV, car or house. That it’s not just ok, but actually a NECESSITY, to take the trip you can’t afford. That it’s a GREAT IDEA to go shopping when you’re bored and to put that killer pair of new shoes on your credit card.
He wants to you be happy today. But unfortunately today’s happiness can be tomorrow’s stress and anxiety.
Money and finances are two of our top sources of stress. The emotional burden of carrying debt or the fear of not being able to make ends meet can take a huge toll. And it robs us of our confidence.
But there’s a way to increase the odds of our advanced brains winning the fight and giving us more freedom from stress and to make better decisions. We can create scenarios where we’re less tempted by Sneaky Pete, not exhausting our willpower to resist him, and are making decisions more in alignment with our long-term goals….they’re called Optimal Defaults.
Optimal Defaults make choosing a desired behavior easier, if not automatic, and require more energy to opt out of a good decision.
Here are 5 Optimal Defaults to decrease your financial stress, create a greater sense of control and open your world of financial possibility:
1. GET RID OF TEMPTATION. If Sneaky Pete sees something appealing, he’s going to do anything he can to make us do it or get it. I used to get suckered into buying all kinds of things I didn’t know I “needed” by looking through catalogs that came in the mail. Stop allowing Sneaky Pete to be tempted. Call or hop online to unsubscribe from catalogs – it takes less than 2 minutes. Unsubscribe from retail emails announcing sales or product launches. Unsubscribe to magazines that have tempting articles or advertisements for things you don’t need. You may be surprised by what a difference this makes!
2. SET IT & FORGET IT. While your advanced brain understands the benefits of planning and saving for your future, Sneaky Pete wants to live it up right now. Dolla dolla bills, ya’ll! Sign up for automatic deposits into savings or retirement from your paycheck. If you have debt, sign up for automatic payments. Don’t give Sneaky Pete the option of making financial decisions for you…he’ll always choose fun today over a solid future.
3. RETAIL “THERAPY” MY A$$. When did shopping become a leisure time activity? I’ll sometimes find myself with nothing to do in the evening and jump on to Etsy to “just see what’s going on”. Or how about being bored on the weekend and going to the mall? It’s like being on a diet and going to a buffet or being addicted to gambling and going into a casino – why put yourself into a tempting situation? Plan other activities like going for a walk, listening to a podcast, or going to a museum, local hot spot or tourist site you’ve never taken the time to visit.
4. HIT THE PAUSE BUTTON. Sneaky Pete is the King of Instant Gratification. He wants WHAT he wants, WHEN he wants it. He hates to be told no. But we can slow his roll by saying “Hold on just a minute. I’m not saying no…but let’s wait. If we still REALLY want it in 48 hours, we’ll revisit it.” As soon as you create some distance and buy some time, Sneaky Pete eases up, and advanced brain has a better chance of taking control. This sounds too easy to work, but you may be surprised at how this small delay allows your advanced brain to wrestle control away from Sneaky Pete.
5. PUT YOUR $$ WHERE YOUR MOUTH IS – NOT IN THE TRASH. According to USDA statistics, a family of 4 spends about $1000 per month eating at home. If you add in going out to eat, it gets even more expensive. We also waste about 1 pound of food per person each and every day…which means we’re throwing money into the garbage. Here are a few things you can do to save money (and time) on food:
- Shop with a list. When Sneaky Pete goes to the grocery store with free reign he starts snatching whatever looks good. Spend the 10 minutes to make a list before you go. A little bit of planning will also save you the stress of wondering what the heck you’ll do for dinner every night as well as several trips to the store.
- Redefine what a meal means. I get stressed and overwhelmed when food prep is too complicated. Then I want to just bag it and go out to eat. KEEP THINGS SIMPLE. Breakfast for dinner is soooooo good! Toast a whole-grain English muffin, top with mozzarella and a couple slices of tomato. Scramble some eggs, spoon on salsa and sliced avocado, and have a handful of corn tortilla chips.
- Do a meatless meal 1 or 2 times per week. Meat is far more expensive than beans, eggs or other sources of protein…especially if you have a big family. Here are a few of my favorite easy, no meat recipes:
- Grilled Halloumi Cheese Tacos You don’t even have to grill the corn or cheese – just cut the corn off the cob and eat it or buy frozen, and you can cook the cheese in a pan if you don’t want to grill.
- Smoky Beans and Greens on Toast This is unbelievably delicious. The bacon is optional. I know those might be fighting words for some of you 🙂
- Chickpea Vegetable Bowl with Peanut Dressing Super cheap and super yum.
- Pasta Salad with Garbanzo Beans, Tomatoes and Feta
I like to call GABA “The Anti-Anxiety Molecule”. It stands for gamma-aminobutyric acid – which is quite a mouthful. Here’s any easy way to understand what this neurotransmitter does…
You’re driving to work and you HAVE TO get there on time because you’re giving a huge presentation, or you’re headed to an important appointment or meeting. It’s been a hectic morning, traffic is a nightmare, you’re late, and you’re full of stress and anxiety about getting there on time.
You are OVERANXIOUS and your pulse is STUCK IN OVERDRIVE….THE OPPOSITE OF FEELING CONFIDENT AND RESILIENT.
Then the ABBA song “Dancing Queen” comes on the radio. How can you not love this song?! You’ve danced to it at weddings and parties…it’s a feel good song. You turn it up, belt it out, and find your muscles relaxing. You can feel the change in your chemistry and state of mind as the song goes on.
GABA (which sounds a lot like ABBA) is a sedative-like neurotransmitter that slows the firing of neurons in your brain. Anti-anxiety medications like Valium and Xanax work by increasing GABA. When it’s higher you feel calm and relaxed, and you’re less stressed or anxious – YOU’RE FEELING ON IT.
Here are 6 easy ways to get more GABA:
3. High intensity interval training
4. Drinking green, black or oolong tea
5. Fermented foods like yogurt, kombucha, sauerkraut, kimchi, tempeh, kefir or miso
6. Nuts, beans, and soy
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